For the weekly videos, I now tell a story. I’ve realized that for me, and I think for many people, a story is what holds my attention and makes a point most powerfully.
This week’s story: It's a sign of maturity not to be scandalized.
Here's the complete quotation from Flannery O'Connor:
“From 15 to 18 is an age at which one is very sensitive to the sins of others, as I know from recollections of myself. At that age you don’t look for what is hidden. It is a sign of maturity not to be scandalized and to try to find explanations in charity.”
–Letter of August 19, 1959
I love the work of Flannery O'Connor. Her fiction is so mind-blowing that I can hardly bear to read it, and I also love her non-fiction. I 've read that collection of letters, The Habit of Being, three times. And here's my latest Flannery O'Connor quote, from an interview she gave: "I'm interested in the old Adam. He just talks southern because I do."
I wouldn't describe it the same way, but that's what I'm interested, too. The old Adam.
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