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Story: I Only Have to Worry about Doing My Best.

This week’s video story: I only have to worry about doing my best.

It was a big relief to me to think -- well, my friend is right, I don't have to worry about being qualified. That's the Justice's problem! It's hard to explain why that made such a difference to me. All we can do is our best, and I've found that when I focus on that, I'm much less anxious, and also more productive.

Has anyone managed to say the perfect thing to you -- the thing that really helped you? I think about my husband saying, to a colleague who sent out a very unfortunate "Reply all" email,  "We've all done it." Or my mother telling me, when I was in a frenzy of last-minute wedding plans, "The things that go wrong often make the best memories."

Or better yet, have you ever found the perfect words to say?

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