“How Does One Find One’s Identity?” What’s Your Answer?

“How Does One Find One’s Identity?” What’s Your Answer?

"How does one find one's identity? My answer would be through work and through love, and both imply giving rather than getting. Each requires discipline, self-mastery, and a kind of selflessness, and they are each lifetime challenges."

--May Sarton, Recovering: A Journal 1978-1979

Yes, another quotation from May Sarton. I'm slowly working my way through all her journals.

Do you agree? That we find our identity through work and love?

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