"It is hard, so terribly hard, to please yourself. Far from being the easy thing that it sounds like, it is almost the hardest thing in the world, because we are not always comfortable with that true self that lies deep within us."
--Christopher Alexander, The Nature of Order Book Four: The Luminous Ground
I agree. It is so, so hard to please yourself.
The more I write about happiness and human nature, the more clearly I see this.
But it sure does sound easy.