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How Do We Learn Most About Another Person?

How Do We Learn Most About Another Person?

“You learn more about a person by living in his house for a week than by years of running into him at social gatherings.”

–Philip Lopate, “Reflections on Subletting” in Against Joie de Vivre: Personal Essays

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What are other good ways to get to know someone? Travel together, work on a project together, meet his or her family, look at the photos on his or her phone...

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