"I also can still see many of Sam's ages in him. New parents grieve as their babies get bigger, because they cannot imagine the child will ever be so heartbreakingly cute and needy again. Sam is a swirl of every age he's ever been, and all the new ones, like cotton candy, like the Milky Way. I can see the stoned wonder of the toddler, the watchfulness of the young child sopping stuff up, the busy purpose and workmanship of the nine-year-old...
"I held him loosely and smelled his neck. Sometimes when I dream about him, he's in danger, he's doing things that are too risky, but most of the time he's stomping around or we're just hanging out together. Sometimes I dream about him when he was younger, and I remember it with such sweetness that it wakes me."
--Anne Lamott, "Diamond Heart," in Plan B: Further Thoughts on Faith
My daughter graduated from high school this week, so you see where my head is.