Gretchen Rubin

Accept a Gift in the Spirit in Which It’s Offered. (Easier Said Than Done.)

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In my books The Happiness Project, and on my blog, I've written about the fact that my spiritual master is St. Therese of Lisieux, which I learned after reading her spiritual memoir Story of a Soul.

I've always been very struck by St. Therese's discussion about getting gifts. She emphasizes that we should accept a gift in the spirit in which it's offered -- and also admits why, even for her (a saint!), this is difficult.

This is the line I especially love: “for the love of God and my Sisters (so charitable toward me) I take care to appear happy and especially to be so.”

If you'd like to watch a short video of me talking about the happiness resolution of "Imitate your spiritual master," it's here:

 

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