Update: Elizabeth clarifies that Adam is protective, but not over-protective (she felt that she was a bit harsh in episode 20).
Try This at Home: Choose an office TV show. Elizabeth's office watches Game of Thrones, and everyone has fun discussing it. Or maybe a family TV show--my family's TV show is The Office. (Listen to the bonus clip.) Or you could have an office podcast!
Know Yourself Better: Do you prefer to savor or spree when you're enjoying certain pleasures? This is related to, but not exactly the same as, the abstainer vs. moderator distinction, which relates to how you most easily resist a strong temptation. I write a lot about this kind of distinction in Better Than Before.
Listener Question: "How do you cultivate healthy habits while traveling?" One answer: avoid loopholes! Here are the 10 categories of loopholes, including the travel favorites, the "this doesn't count" loophole and the "lack of control" loophole and the "planning to fail" loophole.
Elizabeth’s Demerit: Elizabeth regrets that she didn't make a bigger effort to make friends with the very nice parents at her son's pre-school. Now he's off to kindergarten, so the opportunity has passed.
Gretchen's Gold Star: I gave a gold star to my husband, for being super lovely-dovey -- which, if you met him, might come as a surprise. He doesn't seem like he'd be a big "mushball" (Elizabeth's term).
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