Gretchen Rubin

Podcast 94: Don’t Treat Yourself, an Interview with Jonathan Fields, and Two Podcasts Recommendations.


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Try This at Home: Don't treat yourself. We talked before in episode 9 about why you should treat yourself, and in Better Than Before, I have a whole chapter on how healthy treats can help us stick to our good habits -- but the opposite of a profound truth is also true, so it's also true that we shouldn't treat ourselves.

If you're curious to read more about loopholes, here's a list of all ten categories of loopholes. I get the biggest kick out of the loopholes.

If you want to read more about the idea of making a planned exception, I discuss my friend's "pie policy" here.

Happiness Hack: Clare suggests, "If you travel, put a work shoe in the safe, so you won't leave the hotel without checking the safe."

Interview: Jonathan Fields, author of How to Live a Good Life and the podcast Good Life Project. To take the quiz Jonathan mentions, go here.

I mention that I’ve launched an app, the Better app, to help people learn about the Four Tendencies — and also to help people form Accountability Groups (Obligers, I’m thinking about you!). Learn all about it here. Don’t know about the Four Tendencies — about whether you’re an Upholder, Questioner, Obliger, or Rebel? Learn about the framework and take the quiz here.

Gretchen's Demerit: I dithered on an important decision.

Elizabeth’s Gold Star: Elizabeth recommends two podcasts: The Other F Word, where the "f word" here is "failure, and Short & Sweet, which is about "adulting."

And once again, here’s the link to the Happier 911 playlist on Spotify.

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