Big news! My family got a dog today.
And then I talked about why I decided — yes, let’s get a dog! (Listen here.) In the end, as I tell Elizabeth on the podcast, I decided to “choose the bigger life” — a question I always find helpful when I’m having trouble making a tough decision.
We went to pick him up to day. He’s an eleven-week-old cockapoo. So sweet and lovely. My daughters chose the name Barnaby.
We’re excited, and truthfully — well, it’s probably more true for me than for the rest of family — a little overwhelmed by the new responsibilities and the learning curve. Wish me luck!
And I’m racing through dog books. Whenever I need to learn or even experience something, I want to read about it. Any suggestions, please send my way.
I asked for podcast listeners for dog advice, and got so many great insights and suggestions.
Many people encouraged us to get a rescue dog. I have so much admiration for people who do that, and I have several friends who have adopted wonderful rescue dogs.
In fact, for great memoirs on the subject, read my friend Julie Klam’s You Had Me at Woof: How Dogs Taught Me the Secrets of Happiness and Love at First Bark: How Saving a Dog Can Sometimes Help You Save Yourself.
But I know myself and my family. For us to get a dog, we needed to know a lot about what to expect.
Also, many listeners suggested getting a dog who had outgrown puppy-hood. While I was out of town, my husband and two daughters went to visit some dogs, and fell in love with this puppy. So — eleven weeks old, it is.
I’ll report periodically on how having a dog has affected our happiness and habits. I predict that for a little dog, Barnaby will make a big splash.
Onward and upward! Advice, suggestions, and reading recommendations welcome!