Do you love to read? As I was researching my book about habit change, Better Than Before, I realized that many people want the habit of reading. We want to do it, we just need to get back in the habit.
If you’re trying to get more reading done yourself, harness the power of the “Four Tendencies” — my personality profile that divides people into four categories: Upholders, Questioners, Obligers, and Rebels.
Don’t know your Tendency? Are you an Upholder like Hermione Granger? A Questioner like Steve Jobs? An Obliger like Oprah Winfrey? A Rebel like Susan Sontag? To take my free, quick quiz to learn your Tendency, it’s here—more than two million people have taken it.
In a nutshell, this framework distinguishes how people tend to respond to expectations: outer expectations (a work deadline, a “request” from a friend) and inner expectations (write a novel in your free time, keep a New Year’s resolution).
Your response to expectations may sound slightly obscure, but it turns out to be very, very important.
- Upholders respond readily to outer and inner expectations (I’m an Upholder, 100%)
- Questioners question all expectations; they’ll meet an expectation if they think it makes sense–essentially, they make all expectations into inner expectations
- Obligers meet outer expectations, but struggle to meet the inner expectations they impose on themselves
- Rebels resist all expectations, outer and inner alike