Ep. 7: Treat yourself like a toddler, consider the “oppositional conversational style” (a/ka/ “I’m right, you’re wrong”), what to do if other people won’t cooperate with a habit change, and the benefits of lowered expectations. Want to get in touch? @gretchenrubin; @elizabethcraft; podcast@gretchenrubin.com; happiercast.com/7; 774-277-9336.
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Try This at Home
Treat yourself like a toddler. A cranky toddler.
Happiness Stumbling Block
Ever find yourself in an endless “I’m right; you’re wrong” conversation?
Listener Question
“How do you work on a habit that’s not a priority for your partner or family?” Good question. This comes up a lot with habits.
Gretchen’s Demerit
I unjustly accuse my husband of failing to fax an important form for me. I headed straight to blame! Sheesh.
Elizabeth’s Gold Star
Elizabeth’s lowered expectations for the weather in Hawaii meant that her family had a better vacation, in the end.