A Little Happier: The Fun of Phrases and the Delight of Wordplay

When I’m writing, I sometimes come up with a phrase that I find delightful. Sometimes I use these phrases in my work, but sometimes they’re just a little twee, or too pat, or don’t quite fit, or sound too much like a slogan. Some of them, too, are fairly obvious, so I’m probably not the first one to put the words together this way.

Nevertheless, I love these phrases, so I keep a running collection. Here are some of my favorites. 

  • I’m already all ready.
  • Rather than brace against change, embrace it.
  • The past has passed.
  • I want to prove myself and improve myself
  • Generations are generalizations.
  • It’s the difference between fresh air and air freshener.
  • Many have become a prophet for the profit. (That phrase is one of my “bleak aphorisms,” the collection of bleak aphorisms that I wrote and didn’t include in my book Secrets of Adulthood.)
  • I’m not complaining; I’m explaining.
  • Words can reveal or conceal.
  • Offal is awful.
  • Use intention with your attention.
  • Go on a quest to answer a question.
  • Exploring virtual reality showed me the virtue of reality.
  • Color gives us insight in sight.
  • Time that’s fulfilling isn’t filled too full. 
  • Autonomy matters. We’re happy to be “of use,” but we don’t want to feel “used.”
  • Timeless and timely. I think I will use this phrase in my proposal for my next book, Project Empty Nest.
  • Here’s another phrase from Project Empty Nest: Whether or not they do it on purpose, many parents make their children their purpose.
  • Whatever I put first will last.
  • The trap of trappings.
  • Celebrities have to deal with the paparazzi; children have to deal with the paparazzi and the mamarazzi.
  • When people unexpectedly leave their jobs, the reason often involves fun or funds.
  • What’s the opposite of “careful”: “careless” or “carefree?” 
  • Why isn’t an eyesore a sight for sore eyes? (I wanted to include that in my book Life in Five Senses, but I refrained)
  • Saying “please” is the polite way to make pleas.
  • The land of the imagination is the unreal estate.
  • To be admitted, offer cash or cachet.
  • When it comes to clearing clutter, some people aren’t disposed to disposal.

Creating this kind of collection is the kind of task that makes me love my occupation of being a writer.

For me, making this kind of list is the kind of thing I enjoy doing. I love making lists. In fact, when I don’t have a list, I feel listless.

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