Gretchen and Elizabeth discuss why we should always RSVP, and how to stop a simple gathering from, over time, becoming too much work.

Episode Highlights:

• Try This at Home: Always RSVP — Why responding promptly (even with a “no”) makes us a better guest [05:49]
• Happiness Hack: Try a bag organizer insert — A simple way to keep a carry-on, tote, or structureless bag tidy and travel-ready. [14:22]
• Happiness Stumbling Block: Presentation Creep — How over-delivering can gradually turn a casual get-together into something burdensome.  [16:00]
• Listener Update: Hearing Aids — Listeners share how hearing aids changed their lives, plus a practical tip on using Apple AirPods Pro as a starter hearing test. [01:44]
• Demerits & Gold Stars — Gretchen’s demerit: not enough watercoloring; Elizabeth’s gold star: for the friend who created “Trail and Talk” [21:29]

Mentioned in This Episode:

• Bag organizer insert: [⁠https://amzn.to/4oc1oPO⁠]
• ⁠Five-Senses Journal⁠ (20% off with code HAPPIER20):
• More Than Enough by Anna Quindlen (⁠Amazon⁠, ⁠Bookshop⁠)
• The Things We Never Say by Elizabeth Strout (⁠Amazon⁠, ⁠Bookshop⁠)

⁠         Listen to our Bookclub interview with Elizabeth Strout here⁠!

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