Something Making Us (More) Happier

• Elizabeth: Having deadlines. Elizabeth and her writing partner Sarah work better with deadlines.
• Gretchen: Jamie and I have a new weekend house.

I’ve Been Meaning to Ask You

Sometimes, when we face a challenging situation, the issue lies with us, and sometimes, it’s the situation. How can we distinguish between these two?

Spotlight on a Tool

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Quality Screen Time

I recommend the TV show Couples Therapy.

Quotation

“Not that she didn’t enjoy the holidays: but she always felt—and it was, perhaps, the measure of her peculiar happiness—a little relieved when they were over. Her normal life pleased her so well that she was half afraid to step out of its frame in case one day she should find herself unable to get back.” –Jan Struther, Mrs. Miniver