Update:Did you notice our April Fool's Day trick in the introduction?
Yesterday, I celebrated the twelfth anniversary of my blog. It's hard to believe I've been writing here for twelve years. If you'd like to read about how I got the idea for starting a blog, I write about it in The Happiness Project. If you’d like to read some of my favorite posts, you can check out my e-book The Best of The Happiness Project Blog: Ten Years of Happiness, Good Habits, and More, which I put together for my tenth anniversary. If you'd like to see some screenshots of what the blog looked like when it launched, look here.
Try This at Home: Write it down. It's so obvious, but so true, and bears repeating: if you want to remember something, write it down. Secret of Adulthood: Always remember how easy it is to forget.
If you want to hear the longer version of my story about Eleanor's passport, it's in episode 31.
I mention my short biography of John F. Kennedy: Forty Ways to Look at JFK.
Happiness Hack: This is a very simple hack if you need a fun, random diversion: "Find out what your name would be if you were born today." My name today would be Ariah; Elizabeth's name would be Grace. The site tells you what your name would've been in many other decades as well, by using popularity rankings. Useless but amusing.
Four Tendencies Tip: Our listener Sammy suggests a brilliant way for two married Obligers to hold each other accountable, even though sweethearts usually don't make good accountability partners. (In a romantic relationship, the other person counts as "inner" not "outer" for expectations.)
Her solution: Assume a role, so each person feels accountable to that role. She and her husband take turns acting as "Head Chef" and also as "Chief Financial Officer." These roles allow them to enforce expectations related to cooking, shopping, and budget. So simple, so ingenious.
If you don't know whether you're an Upholder, Questioner, Rebel, or -- like Sammy and her husband -- Obliger, you can take the quiz here.
Listener Question: Donna, a Questioner, asks how a Questioner can get through a job interview that requires answering many pointless, frivolous questions.
Elizabeth's Demerit: Elizabeth's "18 for 2018" list included "Take a spin class," and although she expected that she'd do that right away, in January, she still hasn't gone to a class.
Gretchen's Gold Star: I give a gold star the drugstore chain Duane Reade, for providing a secure bin where I could dispose of my unneeded prescription medication. I'd been wondering for a long time what to do with these pill bottles, and by getting them off my shelf, I freed up a lot of very valuable medicine cabinet space.
1. Five 21-Day Projects In just 21 days, you really can take steps to make your life happier—without spending a lot of time, energy, or money. I’ve created four premium 21 Day Happiness Projects for you to follow, if you want to tackle one of these common happiness challenges. One is free, if you want to experiment. Or you can buy the Omnibus, to get them all. Find out more by clicking on the links below.
2. Mugs! We have mugs for each Tendency, along with the mottos, which I love so much. You can order a mug for yourself or for a gift here.