In a recent Secrets of Adulthood Substack Live conversation, I talked to the terrific Shannon Watts, founder of Moms Demand Action (the nation’s largest grassroots group fighting gun violence). We discussed insights from her latest book, Fired Up, and we talked how we’ve arrived at several of our own Secrets of Adulthood–why it’s important to ask yourself whether your life goals are your own or someone else’s, the cost of indecision, and when to double-back or double-down.