Gretchen Rubin

Podcast 13: Stop Reading a Book, a Know-Yourself-Better Quiz, and the Trap of Free Stuff.

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Time for the next episode of  “Happier with Gretchen Rubin.

Always game to talk about her clutter issues, Elizabeth reports on the status of her closet, in the aftermath of our special clutter-clearing in episode 10. For better and after closet photos, look here. (Boy, I love before-and-afters.)

Also, many listeners responded to tell us how they "treat themselves," which was the Try This at Home for episode 9. Excellent treats!

This week:

Try This at Home: Stop reading a book if you don't enjoy it.  (If you want more ideas for reading better than before, check out this one-pager.)

Better Than Before Habit Strategy: This is the "Four Tendencies" Framework, which tells you whether you're an Upholder, Questioner, Obliger, or Rebel. Take this free online Quiz -- 170,000 people have taken it. I'm an Upholder; Elizabeth is an Obliger. As I mention, if you want to start an accountability group, here's the starter kit.

Listener Question: "Do you have any tips about staying happy while slogging through dating?"

Elizabeth’s Demerit: Elizabeth fell prey to the allure of free stuff. Of course, it's true, that some people would have been thrilled to get those items--and that free stuff is a problem that's also a luxury. Absolutely. But for Elizabeth, taking the free stuff was a happiness mistake. Here are two photos: what she intended to buy, and what she brought home.

Gretchen’s Gold Star: Having "weekly adventures" with my teenage daughter. I talk about this at some length in my book Happier at Home.

 

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